Tuesday, November 24, 2015

Periods For Dummies

Reposted With Permission by Thinx

What even is it?

Let’s start from the very beginning (a very good place to start – h/t Fraulein Maria). When females are born, we’ve already got like one or two million eggs in our ovaries. By puberty, only about 300,000 are left. And of those, only 300 – 400 go through ovulation. Once a month, the “ripest” egg gets released. At that point, if it gets fertilized by a sperm cell and attaches to the uterine wall, badabing badaboom, you’re preggo. If not, the egg will break apart, hormone levels will drop, and the uterine lining sheds, coming out as your period.

Are menstrual cycles and periods the same thing?

Nope, not really. Our “cycles” are technically the day you start bleeding until the first day of your next period (roughly 28 days if you’re of the rare “regular” species), and it consists of a bunch of super important stages (like ovulation, for example)––and there’s actually two different cycles goin’ on at a time: the ovarian cycle, and the uterine cycle. Menstruation is a part of the uterine cycle. The period itself is only 5-7 days, which might also be around the same time you start craving ice cream… Or is that just us?

PMS? IDK. 

Cut it out, mainstream media. PMS is not another way to say “perpetual grumpiness.” PMS stands for Pre-Menstrual Syndrome, and refers to a variety of symptoms: soreness of breasts, bloating, breakouts, headaches, nausea, food cravings, moodiness, sadness, etc. There are more than 150 physical and psychological symptoms associated with PMS (#blessed). Why exactly it all happens isn’t 100% understood, but it’s definitely connected to the hormone changes that happen during our monthly cycles.

Why do you feel like a tiny dinosaur is clawing its way out of your ovaries?

Well, your body is literally tearing apart the nice uterus-home it built for the fetus you didn’t create, after all… but that isn’t really why you’re hurting. The pain is actually caused by prostaglandins (i.e., fancy word that’s not super crucial to your understanding of cramps) telling your uterine muscles to contract. Some feel this in their lower bellies, others feel it in their backs.

How much do you actually bleed each month?

The amount of blood that comes out of the cervix each month varies, but it can be anywhere from 4 tsp – 1 cup. Yes, 1 cup. Like the measuring cup you have in your kitchen cabinet. It’s a lot of blood, we know. This is why we are basically superheroes (sheroes, really); vigilantes, out to save bedsheets, pants, and skirts around the world.

What is period blood really?

Raise your hand if you thought period blood was the same as regular ol’ blood. …NOPE! It’s fine though, we didn’t know until we became period pros. In addition to the 4 – 12 teaspoons of blood you lose each cycle, your body is also shedding its uterine lining. This is why it’s thick or clumpy sometimes (don’t deny it). Maybe even goopy. Heh, goopy. Thanks Gwyneth.

How am I supposed to handle this?

There are a number of solutions that women around the world use— everything from tampons, pads, and menstrual cups (all either disposable or reusable) and sea sponges (yes, really, look it up). Every woman manages her period differently, but if she’s really awesome, she probably has some THINX to back her up every month, too :)

Why should I care?

A lack of understanding about periods and how remarkably normal they are fuels stigmas against menstruation worldwide. As long as periods are something to be ashamed of, menstrual hygiene will simply not be a priority, which means that millions of girls will continue to miss school during their periods, which ultimately contributes to a cycle of poverty and marginalization for women around the world. Awareness and education are the antidotes to ignorance, and are the first steps in breaking this taboo. See how we help.

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Who Nurtures You?

By Sheila Kelley

(Posted With Permission by Sheila Kelley S Factor, April 2005)

I love being a woman. I love everything about it. The foul moods. The shimmering glee.  The curves, bumps and soft skin. The enormous, ever changing heart.

Round, grounded, fertile, arid, wet, unpredictable and peaked, we, like Mother Earth, radiate with warmth, understanding, internal and external beauty, grace, peace, and the push and pull of polar opposites that comes with the waxing and waning of the moon. In this cyclic process, we create balance, stability, and security in moments of chaos and are Mother Nature, or, better yet, mother nurturer to all.

But who nurtures you? Who nurtures the women of the world?

We came from mothers and fathers and, hopefully, they were nurturing in one way or another. We moved away from home, some of us went to college, some to work. Then, maybe, we found a love, and he nurtured great until…well, his needs overwhelmed yours and you began nurturing him, because you know guys do that sometimes. Then, maybe kids came, or not, but you’re still nurturing him and the kids or child-like friends in your life who need nurturing. Work gets more consuming as you grow up and, before you know it, you’re nurturing work and him and them, and if you have a pet, you end up the nurturer there, too. And as your parents age they start to need someone to lean on and that someone is probably going to be you.  And you’re about to fall apart because you’ve spent every last cent of giving on everyone else and you’re tired and you feel empty ‘cause who’s filling you up? Most days we feel like Mother Earth with our natural resources tapped, our natural beauty disappearing, and our purity tarnished with pollution.

So, who’s nurturing you? Maybe you used to nurture you before him/kids/pets/work/parents, but then you became last in line, and you got use to it, and by the time it was your turn to get your attention, there was nothing left. Who do you turn to? A shrink? Tried that and, although it was good for a while, where was that unconditional love in return that I give so freely? Do you turn to God and religion? God’s great, and religion…? Sure, it can be helpful but I need some human touch and nurturing and physical warmth. Do you turn to another man? Tsk tsk, uh uh, no. That’s just too damned unreal and too damned destructive.

Do you turn to friends? In this compartmentalized, insanely busy world, are friends really there to nurture you? Hell, they’re probably in the same boat as you, nurturing him/kids/job/pet/parents. So one day, just like Mother Nature you erupt and scream “enough!” and discover that what you are left with is a choice. You cannot be all things to all living creatures if you don’t have YOU anymore. You must put yourself first or all else fails. I believe this fully and heartily and I try to live this every day of my life. Oh yes, I say no to him, I say no to work, I even say no to the pet until I get what I need, and sometimes, when I’m sure they have what they need, I say no to the kids. It’s survival.

And one of the things I need more than anything else in the world is my time connecting to my feminine core. It regenerates me like nothing else. It inspires me. It fires me up and impassions me. How do I connect to the pure feminine in me? One way is lingering in moments of deep and true emotion rather than running past or squelching them like I used to do. If I am overwhelmed with emotion, I let it ring out, runny nose and all! So what if it makes people uncomfortable. It is time for the world to understand that emotion is not shameful. It is not weak. It is one of the greatest gifts that we have been given in our lives. Another way I connect to my feminine soul is in my S Factor undulations. Whether it’s in a class for two hours of pure femme time. Or home alone in my living room I get an hour of pure invigoration. Healing time. Resurrection time. It’s my unconditional love time for me. It’s the time when I reconnect with the Earth, which grounds me. I feel high as a kite and grounded securely to the Earth at the same time, connected to the Earthen woman inside of me. And when I give her—the sometimes forgotten woman inside of me—focused time, I get nurtured.

By shifting my focus from outside myself to deeply into my body, my senses and my emotions, I feel calmed. This inner focus transcends me to a euphoric state of being, and opens me up to the ‘something’s coming’ of life. How do you focus your attention inward? You can find a way, but you have to put your foot down and demand private, alone time. I can’t say that any more profoundly. Oh wait, yes I can. You need PRIVATE-ALONE-TIME. During this time—I would suggest no less than two hours per week—spend it lovingly on your body. Try a weekly massage or manicure. Eat a tasty and healthy self-prepared meal served with candles on your best china and savored slowly. Do a workout that focuses you inward. Meditate. Whatever it is that you do for your body, make sure it is something that feels good. That feels like it fills you back up instead of depleting you.

Yes, I love being a woman for so many reasons. I love my high heels and I love flirty skirts. I love my shit-kicker motorcycle boots and warm sudsy baths with rose scented bath bombs. I love facials and hot oil hair massages. I love my curves and even my not-so-curvy curves. And what I love the most is the sexual woman inside of me who has the power to heal, comfort, and nurture me through life.

Think about it. And ask yourself, “How will I nurture myself today?”

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You never know whom you are healing

By Makeda Smith

Everyone once in a while, my over active brain will try to outwit my mind and label me a narcissist. Granted, social media does seemingly encourage narcissism. I blog daily at FlyingOver50.com and post across a series of platforms, including Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and every once in a while YouTube and StudioVeena.com.

So sometimes I am prone to ask myself – ‘what are you doing???’ But whenever this happens and I hesitate to hit send on a post, spirit always and all ways intervenes … and I get a clear message that though seemingly my writing, my posting, my dancing is all about me – it really isn’t about me at all.

I know spirit guides me because out of the blue, I’ll receive an email or a Facebook message from someone; a woman or a man, local, in another state or even another country – and they are thanking me for my courage, for my inspiration and for being me. And the blessing I receive from that is pure soul nourishment.

As polers, aerial artists, dancers and yes, strippers (shout out to my strippers!) our art is a powerful healing force. That pole climb, simple invert, spin around the pole, floor slither or advance aerial trick is often just what someone needed to see to move them out of the mundane – even if only for a moment. Seeing us do what maybe they want to do, or cannot do, has an impact that ripples across physical, spiritual and etheric layers. We are feeding hopes, stirring dreams and sending light out into the world. And this world needs it and it needs it badly. With the news media constantly bombarding us with ‘bad’ news – any thing we can do to counteract those messages with good news is in fact angelic work.

I wondered out loud on Facebook one day, what did polers do before social media? I am a newbie to this art, so it’s an honest question. With only four years in the community, I can’t imagine the interactions without social media. Social media doesn’t just gift me a worldwide stage for my art, as my ego and narcissism would have me believe – but more importantly, it also ‘connects’ me globally, allowing me to be a vessel for healing is more ways then I could ever imagine.

Pole dance heals me every time I touch a pole. It’s a wonderful thing to know that as I heal myself, I am healing others as well.

Let’s dance y’all !

Makeda Smith

www.FlyingOver50.com

flyingover50@gmail.com

Photo and Art Credit: Donnell Spencer Jr.

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Friday, November 20, 2015

How User-Generated Content Transforms Social Commerce

Editor’s Note: Shayla will be joining us on #BizHeroes this coming Tuesday, November 24th, to talk about User Generated Content. Don’t miss it!    Social commerce represents one of the most executed marketing strategies for companies. However, some brands fail to meet their customers’ high expectations. The onslaught of banner ads and pop-ups has created... Read more »

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Monday, November 16, 2015

Becoming a Freelancer? Here’s What You Should Know

  Technology hasn’t only changed the way we live, shop and interact with other, it is also quickly shifting the way we work. Yes, “freelancing” is the new black! According to Freelancers Union, there are 53 million Americans doing freelance work, adding up to 34% of the whole workforce in the US. And there are many... Read more »

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Thursday, November 12, 2015

Workshop con il Pole Dance Passport Team Edizione Speciale di Natale

Il 25 Ottobre ci siamo riscaldate con il primo evento e questa volta abbiamo preparato una cosina bella tosta. Per organizzarla abbiamo pensato al Natale e alle feste che ci terranno lontane dalle nostre amate scuole. Ok non è come agosto, ma almeno due settimane staremo a casa. E cosa facciamo non ci alleniamo? NON […]

Mi metto a dieta perché mi voglio bene

“Tu che inizi una dieta, ma sei pazza!! Non sei mica grassa!” Questa è la frase tipica che mi sento dire quando racconto che voglio fare una dieta. Giusto per ricordarlo il termine dieta (dal greco dìaita che  significa regime, stile, tenore di vita) è sinonimo di alimentazione corretta, sana ed equilibrata, primo passo verso la prevenzione e […]

Il nostro contributo per la campagna “lo sport difende, la violenza offende”

Senza forze. Impaurito. Vuoto. Gli stati d’animo chi è stato vittima di una violenza. Ma non solo: ciò che davvero devasta l’essere umano è la paura che possa succedere di nuovo. Il terrore che non sia finita lì: torneranno quel dolore e quell’umiliazione? Quando? Domani? Stasera? L’elemento più spaventoso, nel subire una violenza, è la […]

Monday, November 9, 2015

Italia Pole Dance Shop l’eCommerce e il negozio per chi fa pole dance

Quando ho iniziato a fare pole dance per trovare il materiale per praticare come i pali, i prodotti per fare grip, ma anche le scarpe che all’inizio usavo molto, dovevo comprare tutto dall’estero. Se acquistavo dall’America dovevo pagare il doppio: c’erano le spese di spedizioni per nulla economiche e in più le tasse doganali. Negli ultimi anni fortunatamente le cose in Italia […]

Monday, November 2, 2015

Come scaldare il palo da pole dance d’inverno (Metodi poco ortodossi)

Berlino, malgrado sia solo ottobre già settimana scorsa siamo andati sotto lo zero. Nonostante il riscaldamento acceso al massimo dall’inizio del mese, se mi voglio allenare in casa le possibilità sono due: io sono calda e il palo è freddo; il palo è caldo e io sono fredda. Ora, assodato il fatto che se scaldo il […]

A Story of Salvation

By Erin Ghiringhelli

Pole has saved my life. My teenage years were not exactly filled with prom night, sleep overs or homework. After losing my mother my world began to spiral out of control. I fully embraced harmful coping mechanisms that are all too common in today’s society. My sadness turned to hatred that I aimed towards the ones closest to me and then at myself. Each of my days consisted of feeding myself lie after lie after lie. I focused every ounce of my energy on being sickly “thin”, hoping that I could starve myself to perfection. I was about as far away from healthy as one could be.

I never would have thought that I would find my key to happiness in pole dancing- but I did! Within the first year of taking classes I knew that I would never stop. I was addicted to the achievements! I was finally proud of something. It was undeniable the strength that I had gained and my body was beginning to take on a fabulous new form that I had only ever dreamed possible through starving myself and endless cardio. Pole has become a way of life. I have become part of a family that stretches all across the world. I have found some of the most welcoming, supportive and talented women I have ever met who do nothing but love and accept me. I am beyond blessed to have found a sport that lifted me up from the depths of despair and gave me my life back. I am happy to say that I actually love myself and who I am now, I concentrate on being healthy instead of skinny and I have endless faith in my own ability! I know now that I can do anything I want to do with discipline & determination.

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Introducing Allison Sipes

By Eileen Shoals

Please welcome Allison Sipes to the Pole World News family as the newest PWN staff writer. Allison has been a valuable member of the Pole and Aerial Community for many years, but she is new to the family of writers at PWN.

Allison Sipes was a national junior olympic gymnast and trained in professional dance as a child. She is now an ACE and AFAA certified group fitness and aerial instructor, an international performer and instructor, and an entrepreneur.

Allison is an X-Pole Sponsored Athlete, a USPDF Pro, and recently placed 3rd in the 2015 Miss Pole Dance America competition. She is a Master Trainer for XPert Pole Fitness as well as Spin City Aerial Fitness, and has created her own accredited spinning pole teacher training program called Aerius Fitness. Allison is the founder of OnlinePoleLessons.com, The Florida Pole Fitness Championship, The Florida Pole & Aerial Arts Showcase, and is the co-creator of Foxy Kleen, a fun scented fitness equipment cleaner. She recently became the Vice President of the US Pole Sports Federation – which is part of the push to get pole recognized as an Olympic sport. In addition to all of this, Allison also offers private coaching and consulting for students, performers and studio owners who are looking to improve their skills or business, with a new website launched this year called PoleAndAerialStudioOwner.com.

Allison has been Pole Performing and Instructing since 2005.

Her classes focus on combining dance, spins, aerial tricks and flexibility training from beginner through advanced levels. Allison also emphasizes proper technique and stretching for injury prevention. Allison not only brings her professional competition experience but also her classical dance expertise from her over 20 years of training to create a unique teaching environment in the “art of pole.”

In 2013, Allison demonstrated for X-Pole at one of the largest fitness and body building expos in Europe at FIBO for over 80,000 attendees. She has special guest performed and judged many pole and aerial competitions including Miss Texas Pole Star, the Canadian Pole Fitness Championships, the Halifax East Coast Pole Championships, Polesque, the Southeast Aerial Art Championship, and the North American Pole Dance Championships.

Allison has also been a featured guest performer at the International Pole Convention for the past 4 years.

Allison is available for training, performances and workshops around the world. To find out more please contact:AllisonCSipes@Gmail.com

Social Media:

Facebook.com/AllisonSipesAthlete

YouTube.com/AllieGatorUF

Instagram: @AllieGatorUF

Allison Sipes

352-665-2554

USPDF Pro Pole Athlete

XPole Spokesmodel & Sponsored Athlete

Aerius Fitness Master Trainer

XPert Master Trainer

Spin City Aerial Hoop Master Trainer

ACE & AFAA Certified Trainer

www.OnlinePoleLessons.com

www.FloridaPoleFitnessChampionship.com

www.FloridaPoleShowcase.com

www.FoxyKleen.com

www.AeriusFitnessTraining.com

www.PoleAndAerialStudioOwner.com

www.XPertPoleFitness.com

www.XPole.com

www.USPoleSportsFed.org

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